Monday, January 9, 2012

很美

你知道我曾经也那么的在乎过一个人,跟老天发誓要一辈子爱他、疼他、理解他、支持他,可是不知道从什么时候开始我把这些都忘了,我们总是会渐渐地忘掉自己的承诺,更在乎新的感觉,新的喜欢一个人的感觉,可是这种感觉是没底的,如果我们只在乎自己的感受,那我们永远都会爱上不同的人,但爱不应该是这样的,爱是经营、是坚守、是持久忍耐,以前我也以为这些都是说说而已,但其实不是,这个世界上有太多的人,你怎么能保证我就一定是你最后爱上的那个女人,我又拿什么保证你一定是我最后爱上的那个男人,能守住自己最初的那份爱,并且一直守下去,爱护他,不离不弃,那才是最难的,也是最应该做的。

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"I -(name)  take you, name to be my wife, knowing in my heart that you will always be my best friend, my partner in life and my one true love. On this special day, I give to you in the presence of God my promise to stay by your side as your husband,in sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow, as well as through the good  times and the bad. I promise to love you without reservation, to honor and respect you, to provide for your needs the best that  I can,to protect you from harm, to comfort you in times of distress,  to grow with you in mind and spirit, to always be open and honest  with you,  and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live."